![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
maderrI remember what the other thing was. I was killing the last few minutes of work paging through a dumbass magazine to laugh at shit (uh, ladies home journal I think) and it had a little article on shyness and how to 'cure' it.
There was something about how shyness is just self-consciousness, and one way to cure it in groups is to make certain you get people to talk about themselves and other things and not about you.
All I could think was '....being shy means I have problems just opening my fucking mouth, you dumbass bitch.'
Then it went on to say you should always get to parties early, so it's easier to mingle and meet people rather than hesitate over joining groups
Maybe it's just my bad mood that I've been trying to kick, but the snarky bitch in me just thinks whoever wrote the article has no fucking clue what it's like being shy.
There was something about how shyness is just self-consciousness, and one way to cure it in groups is to make certain you get people to talk about themselves and other things and not about you.
All I could think was '....being shy means I have problems just opening my fucking mouth, you dumbass bitch.'
Then it went on to say you should always get to parties early, so it's easier to mingle and meet people rather than hesitate over joining groups
Maybe it's just my bad mood that I've been trying to kick, but the snarky bitch in me just thinks whoever wrote the article has no fucking clue what it's like being shy.
